Let me tell you an interesting background. I did my schooling from a remote place in MP, a place where the nearest town, Benaras was considered what L.A. is considered in Delhi. After completing my schooling, I wanted to move to Delhi for my further studies. As fate wanted it, My father got a transfer to Bombay and against my insistence I had to do my graduation from Bombay instead of Delhi.
I was so not cool about the whole thing. All my school pals were moving to Delhi. Aur main Bombay mein ek parinde ko bhi nahi jaanta tha (There was no one I knew in Bombay). At that time I also had a anti-Bombay attitude (the reason is unknown. maybe my belonging to North India.. Maybe because there is this undeclared and very famous rivalry in India - Delhi vs. Bombay and I have been to my relatives' in Delhi a couple of times. And I was in complete awe of Delhi at that time.) . Anyways, I somehow convinced my self by listening to 'Mumbai Meri Jaan' song (the Johny Walker one). And started trying to love the city.
After getting used to the the cultural and behavioural differences in the beginning (say 3-4 weeks) , I Didn't need much attempt though (to try to love Bombay). I felt as if this city deserved nothing but Love. I was starting to feel Mumbai'kar'. Till date I relate a lot to once my preparatory song - 'Mumbai Meri Jaan'.
"Ae dil hain mushkil, Jeena yahan,
zara haske, zara bachke,
Ye hai Bambai meri Jaan"
Twist in the Tale - My father was transferred back to Lucknow (U.P.) next year. And again, despite my strong insistence, this time that I want to continue my studies(I knew the truth :)) in bombay only, i was told that now, I can study in Delhi(which was my first choice.) I knew I was going to miss the city.
My heart said - BO0000000 hooo , subak subak..
I came to Delhi. Switch to 2008, I have been in Delhi for 8 years now. Often in tea-time chats whenever your liking for a city is discussed, I find myself the lone ranger declaring my love for Bombay. People raise eyebrows and discuss how uncomfortable It was for them to adjust to the Mumbaiyya lifestyle and how they ran from the city at first opportunity. I feel pity, for they could not see what I saw.
The fact that I take Mumbai as a very personal issue is the reason why I felt so terribly hurt and uneasy on the recent - "Raj - MNS's Hate Politics " . I feel I am directly related to this story. And though I am sure of my love for the city, Raj/MNS are saying on behalf of the city - "Thanks, but No thanks. the city never wanted you".
The following recent incidents disturbed me(I'm sure many others too) a lot -
If people like Raj Thakrey are not stopped, Would Mumbai remain 'Mumbai Meri Jaan' for people like me?
Or even for the Mumbaikars ? - I don't think apart from handful of corrupt and insane nomads like Mr. Thackerey, any true Mumbai-walah is not ashamed of whatever has happened.
This post is intended at all those mumbaikars who say with pride - "Mumbai meri Jaan" ..
Ponder over these questions .. Analyse and act ..
Is Raj Thakrey right ?
Does Mumbai belongs to Maharashtra and not India?
If the answer is 'Yes'
What a Shame !